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Happy New Year, 2014 | Solving Questions

Happy New Year, 2014 | Solving Questions | Balance Sheet of Life | Scoop.it
New year 2014 comes with an expectations, hopes for fulfilling the wishes that remained unfulfilled in the previous year.
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A New Year, 2014 arrived with lots of new hopes, expectations, wishes which were remained unfulfilled in previous year. Last year had lots of ups and downs in my life; rather I should say last year was full of downs in my life. I was not succeeding in any of my competition exam; I left my job for the preparation of government jobs. Then, I made a wish in the beginning of the last year that I would get marry or engaged with my boyfriend with the end of this year, but it didn’t happened, rather my parents got annoyed when they came to know about it, scolded me, hated me, stop talking to me, left me alone, they wanted me to forget my boyfriend and accept their decision to get marry to another person. Months passed, each month came with the challenge to face the harsh attitude of my parents. By the time, a fear arose in me of getting married.  I started scared with the word ‘Marriage’. With the end of the year, I somehow manage to make goodrelation with my parents, and yes they are now satisfied, but with this they think that I am ready to forget my boyfriend. How? How is it possible? How can someone forget the one whom you love a lot? With all this, I still love my boyfriend; still wish that this year brings some good news, good news that makes my parents accept me and my boyfriend. I wish this year brings me a good and permanent job. I just hope this year each and every month comes up with a nice and pleasant surprise for me. I beg to God, please don’t be so harsh with me, please stop it now. Last year was enough to check my patience. Now, I can’t bear this pain anymore.  Hope this year ahead comes with the fulfillment of my unfulfilled wish.  A very Happy New Year to Me. 
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Leave all on Destiny | Solving Questions

Leave all on Destiny | Solving Questions | Balance Sheet of Life | Scoop.it
Destiny plays the vital role in every person's life. So just wait and see what all destiny has written in your life without any tension.
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I tried a lot to make my parents understand me and my love. But I failed; they keep forcing me for getting married to another person. Today, they ask me for matrimonial picture. I agree with it but with hard hearted. Obviously how can I be happy if I’m not getting married to the person whom I love so much? But, I also know all my efforts would be in vein if again I try to make them understand. So, I leave it all on my DESTINY. Today, I understand how destiny plays in our life. It’s true, each and every moment in our life is already written. Destiny has already written about my marriage. So why should I get tensed with this? If, the person whom I wants to marry is there in my destiny, no one can stop us to get marry not even my parents. If he is not, then whatever I do, I can not marry with him. Now, I understand these things. From my Birth till today, and till my death each and every steps, every moments had written in destiny. What I need to do is just to wait and watch for the right time to come and read the pages that had written in my destiny. My Birth, My up brings, my education, my job, everything. Then why to get upset? I know people says that person who failed, depends on destiny. But, I don’t think so, person who succeed in everything is also depends on his destiny. I know, my parents would never understand me if I say anything against their will. But I also know, one day they will definitely understand me. Destiny is something which we can never ignore. If we try to go beyond our destiny, we may not get succeed. So, today, I can just sit and read the daily pages of my destiny with the time come. And see, when and whom I’ll get marry. With the person whom I love, or with my parents choice.
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Heart Vs Mind | Solving Questions

Heart Vs Mind | Solving Questions | Balance Sheet of Life | Scoop.it
Conflicts between heart and mind are natural, but balancing between these two is most important for the sake of peaceful and happy life.
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Conflicts between heart and mind are natural, but balancing between these two is most important for the sake of peaceful and happy life. One must know what is good or bad for him, which is for short term happiness or satisfaction and which is for long term. The purpose of heart and mind is totally different one must know about it. 

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Things against our wish might the things favors our wish | Solving Questions

Things against our wish might the things favors our wish | Solving Questions | Balance Sheet of Life | Scoop.it
sometimes, things happen against our will might have the hidden meaning of the things favor to us
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Yesterday, I went for clicking my matrimonial photo because my parents wanted me to click. It was against my will, because I want to get marry with the person whom I love. But my parents are against this relation. So, they want me to get clicked the photo and so that they can submit it to matrimonial sites and get proposals. I did it or say I accept it against my will, I accept it because they force me to accept. But by heart, I do not want to get marry to any other person. I kept quiet; because we already had many arguments over this issue, and I tried a lot to make my parents understand me and my will. But, being quiet does not mean that I give up. As I told, we already had many arguments over this issue and nothing happen that made my parents understand me, I think might be being quiet do something in favors to me which is not done by with argument. I was tensed a lot, because clicking photo is a step towards the victory of my parents. It is the step that make my away from my dream. But, later I realize if I think positive, this can be the step which may be takes me towards my dream with forced pressure. I realized “sometimes, things happen against our will might have the hidden meaning of the things favor to us.” So, here I am trying to make myself positive, and tension free. May be, this is the right time when the things comes out and take the right shape which eventually brings me towards my dream. Also, we can say that I leave it all on my destiny. If destiny wants me to marry with the person whom I want, no one can stop us, and if destiny wants me to marry with the person of my parent’s choice, then also we can’t do anything else to accept the happenings. But, I have faith in God, I know he is with me, and will always be. I know he is the only who can make my parents understandable. So, at the end, I just want to convey my massage to my parents that I will do whatever you want me to do, but neither you nor I can predict the future. I do all those things of your wish with the hope that this is the right way that takes me towards my dream. And I hope one day you will definitely accept me with my love. I understand, things are not always favors to us, but taking the wrong path sometimes, we reach our destination somehow, I know, being positive is all what I can do. I keep faith in God and he knows where to go and how to go. I request you that you also don’t need to take any tension or stress; you just do whatever you want, because you also don’t the future. Destiny had already written my fate. Which you or me can’t change.
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Heart Vs Mind | Solving Questions

Heart Vs Mind | Solving Questions | Balance Sheet of Life | Scoop.it
Conflicts between heart and mind are natural, but balancing between these two is most important for the sake of peaceful and happy life.
Jenny Martin's insight:

Conflicts between heart and mind are natural, but balancing between these two is most important for the sake of peaceful and happy life. One must know what is good or bad for him, which is for short term happiness or satisfaction and which is for long term. The purpose of heart and mind is totally different one must know about it. 

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Balance Sheet of Life | Solving Questions

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Balance Sheet of Life includes Physical Fitness, Financial Fitness, Interpersonal Fitness and Psychological Fitness.
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Balance sheet of life is the post which tries to tell how one needs to balance his life in all the aspects named; physical, financial, interpersonal and psychological aspect. One needs to maintain all his assets and liabilities to balance his life in an accurate way. This post elaborate all the aspects of one person life balancing.

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